Introduction
The purpose of this website is to teach you the very basics of presenting a more feminine appearance and to do so visually.
If you are a boy and want to look girly, there isn’t much you can do about your body without hormones or surgery. You have broader shoulders, Adam’s apples, beefy arms, and facial hair. Unless you want to pay a doctor to fix those, you’re stuck with them.
But that’s okay.
But that’s okay.
There are plenty of gendered habits you can adopt to appear more feminine. Take a look at a drug store and you’ll find a “men’s” section and a “women’s” section for nearly everything. Women have different razors, different hair brushes, different shampoos, different face creams, and many things that just aren’t marketed to men. By doing what ladies do and adopting these gendered habits, you can appear far more feminine.
The purpose of this website is to teach you the very basics of presenting a more feminine appearance and to do so visually. We will present clear tutorials and diagrams that focus on the basics of feminization, the stuff your mother would have taught you if you were born a girl. We assume that you know very little about getting “en femme”. This is intended to be an introductory course – nFemme 101.
The purpose of this website is to teach you the very basics of presenting a more feminine appearance and to do so visually. We will present clear tutorials and diagrams that focus on the basics of feminization, the stuff your mother would have taught you if you were born a girl. We assume that you know very little about getting “en femme”. This is intended to be an introductory course – nFemme 101.
The intended audience is fembois, sissies, twinks, crossdressers, or any other biological male who wants to adopt a more feminine appearance for whatever reason. We assume our audience does not want to permanently alter their bodies, so we will only present reversible feminization strategies. We will not discuss hormone replacement therapy (HRT), sexual reassignment surgery (SRS), or other trans* specific topics.
But we don’t want to be exclusive! If you are trans* and just beginning your transition, you will probably find this site helpful. However, we simply don’t have the personal experience or professional expertise to discuss the finer points of a full transition. Further, while there is copious information online regarding full transitions, there is a dearth of material targeted at boys who want to partially transition. We want to fill that niche. |
Overview
This website is about teaching you what your mother would have if you were born a girl. There are many gendered habits, such as shaving your armpits or wearing make up, that are classically feminine. We’ll go over what those habits are and how to get into them.
For each section of the site (hair removal, nails, make up, etc), we will do our best to cover all the basic information you need, whether it be a list of things to buy at the store or a diagram of different cuts of skirts. After that, there will be a step-by-step tutorial so you know exactly what to do. By reading all the sections and following all the tutorials, you will be a well-educated and super pretty gurl.
For each section of the site (hair removal, nails, make up, etc), we will do our best to cover all the basic information you need, whether it be a list of things to buy at the store or a diagram of different cuts of skirts. After that, there will be a step-by-step tutorial so you know exactly what to do. By reading all the sections and following all the tutorials, you will be a well-educated and super pretty gurl.
The first gendered habit we’ll address is body hair. Women usually remove most of the hair they grow from the nose down. Unsurprisingly, this is a hot topic among fembois who want to be smooth and pretty. We’ll cover all the available hair removal options from shaving to electrolysis. Since you probably aren’t inclined to use all of them, we will help you select the best option for your own body. Because there are so many options for hair removal equipment, we will compare and contrast many available devices and offer our recommendations. Finally, we will present a robust strategy for efficient and cost effective total body hair removal that requires only a beard trimmer, a razor, and some shaving cream.
Another gendered habit that is quite popular with fembois is nail care. Manicures and pedicures are sure sign of femininity. Plus, they’re really, really fun. Nothing says “I'm a sissy” like bright pink nail polish. We will go over the different tools used in nail care, discuss the various lacquers, and teach the proper techniques for using the tools and lacquers. Finally, we will present a step-by-step guide to giving yourself a French mani/pedi.
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Make up is yet another gendered habit, and a particularly daunting one for the beginner! There are literally hundreds of different cosmetic products in a typical supermarket; they are not well labeled, and they do not come with instructions. We will present the different categories of make up (foundation, contouring, shadows, liners, lip sticks, etc), tell you how and when to use them, and discuss the different colors and how to choose the right ones. For the tutorial, we’ll teach you how to do a “no make up” look. If you look super pretty and nobody can tell you’re wearing make up, then you have almost mastered the art.
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Clothing is another daunting gendered habit. Women are allowed much more leeway in their fashions by the gender police, and so they have a far more varied selection than men do. We will discuss the different types of clothing and the different cuts they each come in (ie. swoop neck blouse vs. crew neck babydoll). We will pay special attention to underwear and hosiery, as the femboi faces particular trouble fitting his bits into these. We will also discuss “matching” as it pertains to colors and styles. A gallery of suggested outfits will serve as the tutorial for this section.
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Hair care is a tremendously gendered habit that we will discuss at length. Where should you get your hair cut and which goop should you put into it? We will address these questions, as well as give detailed information on the different styles of cuts and how to manage a cut once it is on your head. The tutorial here will focus on taking care of a short hair cut, from shampoo to hair spray.
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Finally, we will discuss feminine accessories. We will talk earrings, necklaces, bracelets, miscellaneous accouterments, and OMG SHOES. These all come in so many various styles and sizes that talking about them may seem like a foreign language. We will again use a gallery of suggestions as the tutorial, and these will correspond to the gallery of outfits from the clothing section.
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By the end, you will be body-hair-free, mani’d and pedi’d, made up, dressed femme, and have stunning hair and jewelry to complete your look.